Why can we never be just friends

You have been dating for more than one month. For a long time and you have already enveloped the feeling of love. He knows everything about you.

You know each other quite well and closely.

Perhaps you already lived or went on holiday together; or maybe traveled or hand in hand raked routine work. You know for sure that he will refuse the menu, since knows what drink you choose. He gets you, and you get him.

But now, your relationship is deadlocked and a terrible conversation about parting is inevitable. He explains why he does not want to be with you anymore, and to some extent you agree.

You knew from the very beginning that nothing will happen and this is the most depressing. And in the end, you know that you are diverging. But he wants to remain friends.

Friends, mean? FRIENDS, with whom you play video games or football? Or those friends whom you always forget to call back, whom you see at the wedding or, perhaps, with whom you regularly hang out somewhere?

We are “friends” who have spent the last few months or years meeting and getting to know each other more and more,getting acquainted with the families, psychology and peculiarities of each other's character. We were more than just friends. We were in love.

Friends and lovers are completely different things. My friends have never seen me really vulnerable or naked. Friends did not kiss me in the morning. They do not know what postures I prefer and how I hate morning sex.

Friends do not know how I blow the roof after I have a good drink (although, perhaps, this is not true). Friends have never initiated me into their plans, as you did. We never shared such things with friends.

You want to see me in your life ... but in a completely different role. For whatever reason, what was between us -is over. And frankly, I personally do not want to be just friends.

I want you to be my one and only.
I liked to hear words of support on the other side of the wire when something happened to me. There was so much good between us.


I want to write to you when something reminds me of our meetings. I want you to know how my day is going. And most importantly, I do not want our jokes and the minutes spent together to be forgotten.

Not that friends can't call each other. But you will no longer answer me the way it was before.

I still want you.
Everything that was between us was beautiful. We were good together. We knew each other's preferences, and what next pose we could try.

I imagine with horror that I will have to re-discover someone sexually.

Everything else, I was drawn to you, and I can not cope with this. And even now I can do nothing about it. We are “just friends.”

Being at this moment next to someone else, I will have to pretend that I do not think about you.

I can not imagine you with any other.

I, of course, wish you happiness. You can be happy, but not with others. At least not now.

Thinking about having sex with someone else makes me crazy. I do not want what you did with me, you did with someone else. Even from the thought that you are kissing someone else or sleeping with another woman, everything is compressed.

Can you call her when you see something funny? Will she now receive the messages that I once received?


Is she now walking around the apartment in your t-shirts and pants? She will now spend time with your family, which in me did not like? I don't want this ... I don't want to be taken out of the game ... I don't want to be replaced.

I do not want you to see me with someone else.
I know this is annoying. But, I want you to be in love with me.

I will live on, but I still want you to think about me. It is important for me to know that I was the page in your book of life and that everything that was between us will not be forgotten.

I do not want to pretend that I am interested in your personal life, because it is not at all interesting to me.

I am more than sure that your sex life has begun and ended with our relationship.

Friends talk about sex and share awkward moments with each other. They describe in detail the events of the past night.

I do not want this to be so between us, and this topic is inevitable. If we cannot talk about such things - we are not friends.

I already have a lot of friends.
So why weren't we just friends from the start?

There was a void in my life that you filled.

I was not looking for friends. Yes, and you were not a friend. You were my boyfriend.

I am surrounded by a large number of people with whom I can go for a late breakfast, speak for days to fly over or just have a drink. And you have the same.

I don't need another person at the table. This place is already taken.

I need to bring order to my later life, so you will no longer be in it.

For a moment, I thought: “What does my life look like if you have it in?” But now, I will have to present it completely differently, and how can I do it if you are still there?

I will have to rewrite the story as if you are not there. This page of the book needs to be turned. And again I can not do this, since you are near.

If it depended on me, we would either be together or break up once and for all.

Therefore, my answer is no. I do not want to be friends. From now on, we are just "ex."


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