The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

He will never tell you about it. Yes, he is even afraid to read this article, and will not allow you to catch him doing this, because he does not admit that he wants to know whether his dirty laundry has been hung out for all to see.

He will not say, but I will.

But first there are two warnings: firstly, this, of course, is not a complete list, but I think the most important thing is; secondly, all this is written not to shame a man, but to help him. Remember that he may know your dark secrets.

Fear One: "My sexual desire is not normal."

I will not say again that men want a lot more sex than women, because this is not true. Women want, just under different conditions. A man just wants it. Under any conditions, in any possible options. With your sister, mother, librarian, teenage girl from a nearby apartment, and even that terrible babistey-saleswoman. In his mind, scenes from strange porn (group sex, fetish, BDSM) are constantly played, and sometimes it even shocks him.

In the depths of his soul, he himself is horrified that he wants so much sex, or that he has the wrong desires for the wrong people. But it's good that his brain controls this insane sexual attraction.

How can you help him

Create an atmosphere of openness and sincerity in your intimate life, so that he does not fear his sexual desire. I'm not saying that you need to do everything he thinks about, but you can discuss your fantasies. Help him make you a star of his fantasies, share your thoughts and desires. And let him know that he satisfies you - a man needs it.
Fear of the second: "Other men will think that I am weak"

Men have a big responsibility: to earn well, support a family, ensure the safety of their loved ones, be better than other men, be decisive, overcome all difficulties, solve all problems, never show fatigue, fear, not think about sex so often, in the end . A lot of things, in fact, impossible.

And they face such a challenge every day. And if they do not correspond to this, they are afraid that they will be ashamed, humiliated - not so much by you or other women, as by other men.

How can you help him

As they say, behind every great man stands a great woman. A man wants you to be his support, always were on his side, especially when he does not get something. You have to show what you see and appreciate, how he tries, that you believe in him and you want him to win. Tell him how you admire him, how he inspires you.


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    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)

    The two most secret fears of men (and how to help him)