Do not be his backup option

You understand how it looks from the outside, so on-serial is not original. Here you sit with the phone, you feel this nagging feeling in the stomach with each breath, waiting for an answer, which you know you will not wait.

You did what everyone warned you not to do. You put all your hopes and desires on one person. One stupid man you can't forget.

You never thought you would be the one to sit and wait like that. It is completely unlike you. You are different. Or was different.

Something incredible happens to us when we fall in love.. In English, “falling in love” sounds like “fall in love” - falling into love. And we really feel like we are falling, slipping on an invisible banana peel, losing any support that we had.Everything becomes like in slow motion, and then you suddenly find yourself so soiled that you can not see anything.
We can say that these are all hormones, oxytocin and endorphins, everything. But it is not so easy. This is a serious impact on psychological stability, on trust.

We are constantly talking about the fact that love drives us crazy, and this is definitely true, and when we do not have it? When we only see it within reach, but no matter how hard we try, we cannot grasp it? When she was there, and the pots suddenly disappeared?

This is not just crazy, and makes the brain.

And when someone you love pushes you away, or comes to you only when he failed with the first girl, and you are his spare ...

It tears you to pieces. But you are not ready to admit it yet. You want his love, his smell, just to know that he is with you now, completely. Because you're trying to justify it. Your brain is working hard to make something completely irrational to sound logical. You will find commonplace reasons to wait and remain his backup option. You will swallow the remaining pieces of your pride, while no one sees, and think that being a spare is not so bad.

He chose you anyway, right? Just not right away. And maybe not now.

When you think that way, you let it dictate your value, what you are worth. Yes, sometimes love so absorbs us that we do what we thought we will never do. We say that we were not going to say.

But you deserve one who will feel the same to you. It is not enough to be just a spare, second option, to sit and wait for him to deign to see you.No matter how you calm yourself, a part of you will slowly die, because there is another, first one.


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  • Do not be his backup option

    Do not be his backup option

    Do not be his backup option

    Do not be his backup option

    Do not be his backup option

    Do not be his backup option

    Do not be his backup option

    Do not be his backup option

    Do not be his backup option

    Do not be his backup option

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