Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

Cousin, why don't you go out? Come on come on!

I always really wanted a girl and was sure that we would have a girl. It all started like most pregnant women - with two stripes on the test. But since the second strip was barely noticeable, I bought the tests many times until I was sure that we would be parents :))))) Immediately came up with a name on the way home in the car, quickly and unanimously - Anastasia.

When I became registered at 11-12 weeks, the doctor told us that 90% would be a boy. I was upset and had to choose a name for the boy. But I was nevertheless sure that there would be a girl !!! And all subsequent ultrasounds confirmed this to us.

Me, like any pregnant woman tormented by the question - Where to give birth? I read reviews and decided to give birth in Zhytomyr. When she told her husband about it, he was shocked and said that we have nothing to do there.

My husband categorically did not want to give birth to me, I was against his presence too. I was very afraid to give birth. I imagined childbirth as something terrible !!! And 100% was sure that I will give birth only with an epidural.

To get rid of fear and understand what to do with a child after birth, my husband and I went to courses in the “World of Harmony”. And many thanks to Marinochka Yerko, after the first lesson the husband told his mother that he would go to give birth to me, only on attempts will come out. I was no longer afraid to give birth and was glad that my husband would be with us.

During the course I had requirements for the maternity hospital and the doctor. I wanted only natural childbirth and a minimum of intervention by doctors.

The conversation with the mother of my girlfriend was decisive, she works with all maternity hospitals, and said that the Zhytomyr maternity hospital is one of the best in Ukraine. After that, all my and my husband's doubts with the choice of the hospital disappeared.

We phoned with Yuri Ruvovich, agreed to meet. We arrived, we all showed told. I just could not believe what it is in Ukraine !!!

Yes, they take money from Kyiv residents for the wards and not small ones, BUT they invest this money in the development of the hospital.It is repaired, updated equipment, furniture, and in every way they do better. And in Kiev, the doctor put money in his pocket and everything, and the conditions and attitude of the staff leave much to be desired !!!

We were reinsured just in case, agreed with the doctor, even paid 700 hrn in the 7th hospital. contribution because This is not our maternity hospital at the place of residence. And they began to wait for the birth.

My date of delivery ranged from May 30 to June 10. After May 30th everyone tormented me with the question “Well, how?”. Everyone was waiting. But my daughter decided that parents should first finish all their affairs. And so it happened, on June 5th we completed everything, I managed to go to yoga and even read the book “Birth without fear” :).

There was some kind of movement in my stomach all night. And on the 6th of June, in the morning, something seemed to slam inside me, I thought it was just a child who pushed me like that. It was about 7-30 am, the husband was still at home. I got up to the toilet and felt that water was flowing out of me. The water was pink and the contractions immediately began in 5-6 minutes. We called the doctor in Zhytomyr, who gave birth to our friends. He said go to the hospital. Immediately flooded a feeling of happiness and joy. This long-awaited day, today we will meet with our crumbs!

We quietly got together, stopped at McDonalds, bought various sandwiches, took the mother-in-law's cat and went to the maternity hospital. Fights were already with a frequency of 4 minutes. On the way, we still stopped and ate. On the way, my mom called, well, how did she feel :)))))). In the hospital, we were about 13-00.

The doctor on duty looked at me and said that the disclosure was 4 cm. Immediately they asked what room we wanted. It turned out that the 11th was occupied, and in general there are many who give birth and there is only one junior suite free. They put us into it later. My husband and I changed clothes, and we were taken to the hospital.

To us came various doctors, midwives. For a long time I could not understand with whom we will give birth. Then the girl Oksana came and said that she was our midwife. Later we learned and who our doctor.

I immediately perched on the ball, tried other poses. But the ball was for me the most it !!! At first, my husband and I, between contractions, laughed, talked a lot ... Then, when the contractions became stronger, I started to go into myself more, relaxing each muscle of the body. Sometimes it seemed about to fall.

Here again I want to say a big thank you to the courses and a special thank you to Julia, our yoga instructor !!! I was absolutely calm, confident, breathing correctly. Nastia had such a heartbeat that the midwife and the doctor claimed that we would have a boy.And they decided that I have a large fruit. Therefore, they convened a consultation, because the neck didn’t want to open at all Time passed, the contractions became a little more frequent, and the disclosure went very tight. The doctors decided to give an oxytocin injection, they asked me. We were not against the doctors know better. They were afraid that I was losing strength. After the injection, the contractions became more frequent, the neck began to open a little faster. I was told to walk. It was hard, but my husband was close by !!! He supported me, we breathed together, we pulled AAAA sound (it helps a lot!).

Then I began to grudge, and the neck still did not open completely. I was told to squat at battles near the wall with wide legs apart.

While I squatted, they began to transform the bed into a chair. It was very convenient to give birth to it. As the midwife told us, these beds have appeared recently.

I was allowed to push. Here the most difficult things started, the first two attempts during the fight I did everything correctly, on the third I did not have enough strength. And I started to straighten up in the face: (((They put a dropper with oxytocin, but I was so severely strained that the blood rose up through the drip and soon the dropper was removed altogether. The attempts lasted about an hour.It was like in the gym with a huge load. Daughter tried very hard. It was visible on the stomach as it is screwed. At some point, I stroked my stomach and said: “Cousin, why aren't you coming out? Come on come on! ”

My husband was always close. He never went anywhere. The doctor said that at the first attempts, the head is already visible, and then it seems as if something is returning back. At 23-15 cousin still out!

She was briefly laid on my stomach and immediately given to a neonatologist. It turned out that our Nastya had a double entanglement. Although the ultrasound exactly one week before the delivery, there was no entanglement. We were very scared for the daughter. I couldn't take my eyes off her.

At this time, the afterbirth was born. I do not remember how this happened, because My attention was all on our baby. I only remember that the battle began and Oksana told me not to push. But I could not keep myself :))

I was examined and it turned out that there is one internal crack. The doctor quickly sewed it. And they put Nastyushka on my stomach, she carefully looked at my dad, then she raised her head and started looking for a sisyu :)))

Our dad cried from happiness! And at that moment all the emotions were inside me.

We spent the next two hours together, Dad, me and naked Nastya lying on me, covered with a blanket. Two hours later, Nastyusha was weighed (it turned out she was not at all large 3310 g and 54 cm), dressed, wrapped in a blanket and given to me. Our doctor came Inna Mikhailovna (like so) kissed the baby and said that this was her child too.

Then we were transferred to our room, or rather the chamber :)) (the word "chamber" somehow does not fit). Husband and Nastya were sleeping peacefully, but I could not sleep from the emotions. I looked at them, my most dear and beloved little men in the whole Universe.

A little later the duty doctor came to me, asked how I was, and took me to the toilet. In the morning a neonatologist came to us, who was in labor. Then I went to the shower, and when I returned, our doctor was in the room. I asked how I like a baby.

Almost all the shifts of doctors we got were very pleasant. Well, maybe except for one ... especially we didn't like the nursery nurse. Firstly, there was a very persistent smell of alcohol from it, and secondly, we called her several times to show the correct attachment, since my chest was already poured in and Nastya couldn’t properly grab the nipple, she didn’t really show anything, and at night when the child had a stomachache that she couldn’t poop, she came and said that she couldn’t help.

The next day we were luckier, there was a very nice nurse, she did a little massage for the baby, pressed her legs, cursed her tummy to herself and literally 10 minutes later Nastya showed meconium well and quietly fell asleep.

From the minuses of the maternity hospital I can note:
- food, I really did not like the same soup for lunch and dinner, and even the next day, cold tea (we took a kettle and made our own), we had to buy more food not only for my dad, but for me;
- in the shower on the floor there was no cold (!!!) water :) you would see how I washed%);
- WC on the floor, in one the door was not locked, in the second there is no washstand.

The rest we really liked everything, the feeling was that we were in a sanatorium. Nobody demanded money, only at discharge they were asked to buy 2 packs of paper towels. From the solemn discharge immediately refused, no one impose.

We are very glad that we gave birth in this hospital. And if once we decide on the second, then only there.

I am very grateful to Inna Mikhailovna and Oksana for helping us give birth to our wonderful daughter !!! As well as my beloved husband Sasha for support and understanding. Without him it would be very hard! And I want to say to girls, childbirth is not scary and does not hurt !!! The main positive attitude and confidence that everything will work out for you.


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  • Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health

    Birth of Nastyusha in the Zhytomyr Regional Center for Mother and Child Health