We all did that.
The beginning of a relationship is so exciting and unpredictable that sometimes we forget to objectively evaluate a person. We forget, in fact, to find out who we meet. We have a lot of fun, kiss, dream, but it will not be forever. Therefore, we must take a step back and remember that we do not really know this person. That's because we make these 9 most common mistakes at the beginning of a relationship:
1. We fall in love too quickly.
But you can't fall in love with someone you barely know. This is only a passion, passion, obsession.
2. We show our feelings too early.
And this is not always good. We do not want to scare away a person who may not yet feel the same. It is possible to first discuss your feelings with a close friend.
3. We get physically close too early.
Do not rush intimacy. First, it must be emotional, and then physical.
4. We ignore the warning signs.
Can he / she call or write too often? Can he / she try to control your life? Do you often have to justify his / her strange behavior? Do not ignore these red flags.
5. We become too intrusive.
No one wants to be intrusive.Writing too often or checking his / her account several times a day is just a few signs that you have become obsessive.
6. We are talking about the former.
No one wants to hear about your ex, like you probably don’t even want to know about your ex. At least not at the beginning of a relationship.
7. We too generalize.
Do not make stereotypical statements, do not think that you know a person if you know someone like him. This will show that you underestimate him / her, that you have prejudices. “All men are goats” and “All women are bitches” - this is too general and incorrect.
8. We chase each other online.
Only one date passed, and you have already checked his / her page on FB, on Instagram, VK and all other social networks? This not normal.
9. We take out personal moments for everyone to see.
Do not too often post your happy photos together, not to mention the problems.